Mental Health

Immunity to Change and Poetry

Seasons of Change – Poetry & Immunity to Change

By Cayla Berejikian The past year of my life saw a lot of change. None of it felt monumentous, special, transformative, or like it was “meant to be.” It was simply constant and uncomfortable, like a dull headache. And the only side effect was vague sense of confusion and detachment, at least in the midst

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The Attention Economy Bargain: Trading Meaning for Comfort

I had become irritable and highly intolerant of minor disturbances or anything that could get in the way of my comfort. And I was deeply unhappy. I embark on a mini-quest to regain ownership over my lived experience, my sense of time and place, and a sense of meaning in my day-to-day-life. And ideally, I would find some stable form of happiness.

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Loving-Kindness Meditation: Spreading Positive Energy

We are often our own harshest critics and that can get exhausting. Constantly talking down to ourselves can start to tear us down. Furthermore, we tend to not show ourselves the same compassion that we show others. It is easy to get caught up in the rat race of everyday life but we should remember

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Body Scan Meditation: Focusing on You

Imagine you are sitting at a desk over your laptop with your neck bent, your shoulders tense, and your back hunched over the screen. Well, you might not even have to imagine this. It could be you at this very moment. Due to the pandemic and social distancing, we have all been spending more time than ever shackled to our desks in a variety of bad postures with more stress than usual. In fact, you might be so focused on the other distractors or stressors in your life that you do not stop to think about how all of this is impacting your body. As humans, our bodily states are very much connected with our emotional states. This can mean that if we are stressed, our body is stressed, but that is not something we pay attention to very often.

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Overcoming Patterns of Guilt and Shame

Guilt and shame are two of the most powerful emotions in our culture. They can be extremely negatively valenced in the mind and body, and I observe that they affect people’s mental health to a great degree. In this post I will describe why people can tend to get caught up in unhealthy patterns of feeling excessive shame and guilt, and give you some pointers on how you can overcome these patterns.

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